My friend just cancelled on me. I messaged her saying "Are we still on for streaks today?" as she had said on Wednesday that I could come over today and we'd have steaks. She replies "Oh I'm sorry! Tim has this thing for work that he literally just told me about that we're going to". Why do people think it's okay to just blow off a commitment? And was she even going to tell me? Because I messaged HER, not the other way around! Why not just be truthful and say, "I'd rather do this than get together with you"?