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Old Jun 26, 2022, 08:13 PM
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Yes. Hence why I posted this:
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We have an routine that if I email her, she will email me before noon the next day either responding or letting me know when she'll respond.
We also have a plan for if I can't hold out until noon the next day. This has nothing to do with my safety.

And it's not the amount of time that bothers me. 15mins is no big deal. Seriously. And the phone call was planned, not me demanding right that second.

What's been triggering me is feeling like I'm in the way. I am dealing with an immense amount of stress and my need for support has increased. It's making me extra sensitive towards her. Actually, I'm more scared of her right now than angry or upset. She might be moving which would mean telehealth for minimum a year. Neither of us want that, but it's a possibility.
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