That’s what he needs to do for himself. He is not doing that for you. He has spent years using and he has not changed since your wedding nite where he chose to be selfish. He has a long journey because not only does he need to learn how to live his life sober, but he will need to take responsibility and grow up.

Statistically, most partners wait until their spouse gets on their feet and then they leave. This typically happens within three years.