Thank you all so much for these responses, I'm saving all the info, it will all be useful.

Sunrise, yes it is special. He is a Masterson trained T. they specialise in the disorders. Over the years I have done so much therapy and lots of stuff, no T. ever made much impact on me, these people get through to me emotioanally half way through the first sentence, its LOL,

I have tried several of them and couldnt stick it, I think they had thier own disords too. This guy ---- well, so far so good after a few sessions on the phone.

thats the story very briefly. I'll tell you more if you like.

thanks so, much again for the info, I'm impressed and now much better informed. (ps USA reputation for hospitality!

We'll probably confirm if I'm really going to do this next sess, next week.

river.