Why? Because, as a client, you expressed your feelings? Because, as a client, you drew your T's attention to something relevant and non-significant that was impacting you and your sessions?

Is this what you would tell a friend if it had happened to them: you brought on yourself, pal

Please, be kind to yourself. There is nothing wrong in speaking up when something is wrong. If the other cannot stay at the table with you (and Ts ought to be trained to do so!), it doesn't mean you should 'shut up and put up' with other people's nonsense. You are entitled to express when something displeases you. That's the client's prerogative. IF they get defensive and cannot handle it, it's on *them* not on you. It shows *their* lack and deficiency - not yours.