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Old Jun 28, 2022, 11:37 AM
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@Vinnie411 I am sorry for the loss of your partner and the health challenges you face.

I empathize with your situation but there is no easy way out of it. It hurts and it is a big disappointment.

What I can share is how I tried to divest myself of the expectations I had that that partner would fulfill me and or make me happy. I had to reinvent myself to do that. It is not easy. But I did find that expecting others to make me happy just did not make me happy.

Helping others with the time I have left is more satisfying than what I did before. I made a bucket list of everything I wanted to do with the time I have left. Working on them has helped me refocus my life.

Hope you get the support you are looking for. @CANDC
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