I can relate to the part of not knowing the medical history,recently I have answered I donot know to my physician. Asked my mom about her history to which she said she doesn't remember.Coincidentally, one of my cousin knows something that I am not aware of about my mom's medical history.I feel like they are complete strangers to me.

The physical cruelty ( abuse by my mom) stopped around age 12/13.But the emotional and psychological cruelty continued.They got more and more creative as years passed by. Both my parents has a talent for shooting hateful darts in a single glance that could kill your soul.