Well yeah he doesn’t need to know if you discuss his mother with other people. I won’t be happy either, I could understand how he’d feel. I’d not like that.

I am just saying how he’d know what you talking about.

I think it’s weird that he likes privacy yet doesn’t think you deserve privacy and needs to know what you talking to people about. I have no idea what my husband talks to my brother and sister in law or my daughter or son in law or my nephews or whoever else about if I am not present. I know he shares recipes of some specialty dishes and talks about movies but who knows what else, I don’t care. He’s not a child, I don’t need to supervise his conversations.

I think married people are allowed privacy. Maybe I am just not getting the scenario.