I tried but it's difficult in my country as many people such type of harassment still don't take seriously. One psychiatrist even asked me "what do you think you did to cause that those boys harass you?" What I did? Nothing. I was a clueless kid, even if I wasn't, even if I acted more mature, even if I wore short skirts, which I didn't, there was no excuse. When professional asks you such question, what to expect from others?
I just feel unsafe around men. Not just sexually, I feel like they are going to hurt me in any way, emotionally, psychologically, whatever... on least sign of possible problem, I run away. I still do it. I am also deadly afraid of stalkers, I never give away my address or anything.
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