He is very testy. And right now I don’t feel like sucking up to one of his moods. I left, and with tension between us over his mother. I cannot deal with either one of them right now so I just took off earlier than expected to go to my mother’s outdoor pool.

My fathers obituary was published in todays paper. I’m having enough of a hard time as it is dealing with my sorrow. So right now, I don’t feel like babying or pandering to my husband. He can go spend the day with his rude mean mother. He needs to grow up and not take this out on me because his mom is rude.

And you’re right. She now gets to play the victim. I’m the bad guy for speaking up.