Thank you, Rose! What you wrote really makes sense to me. It's all true. You are right, he will not put them in nursing home, he even tried to get help as he wrote me once, but his mother was screaming against it so he had to let that go. I felt so bad for him. But I can't really help him. I just wanted to be "there" (somewhere) as support if he needs to talk, but it seems he doesn't want that too. He thinks that will get me "stuck in one place waiting for him" (maybe I am not using this "phrase" correctly), with what I do not agree because I do go out and have my life without him. I am just very worried.
I do try to help people or, since I am not really good at it, to be a fun person to be around (which I am also not good at but I am trying). I love animals and I am really into preserving nature, so this is one thing I really stand for. Again, that's tough because I live in country where government doesn't give a flying cr*p about nature and destroys every green area to put concrete on it for some parking or bank or whatever. It can get frustrating and I am not that young anymore. But I do try to help, whenever I can. It's just that in case of this particular man, I really can't help, and I was wondering if I should stop trying. Because it just gets me feel like I am pushing him even tough I just sent him several worried messages.
Thank you!