I didn't ask you to state the disease they have and I was very clear about that.

And yes, you keep pushing when he does not want you to. You would help a stranger but if the stranger does not want your help, it is *their* decision which you have to respect. This man, in your own words "refuses contact" with you yet you keep pushing. This is not helping. He is a grown man, he is not a helpless little boy. He chose this life and wants to be left alone. People are entitled to make their own decisions. He does not want your help.