I don't mind either Comrade. I know you have a lot of offers already, and we don't always see eye to eye, but if you want a different perspective, I'm open. If not, I'm not offended either.

I have written and talked to Ts about my needs, wants, and goals before working with them. I find it very beneficial to just be upfront and honest. I don't go blurting out my secrets, but I do set my requirements and expectations from the start. It's one of the reasons L chose to work with me.