It’s hard to say as every family has its own dynamics. Sometimes sucking up and putting up with things needed to be done to keep the peace and sometimes it’s better to take a stand.

At this point personally I’d do what’s better for your husband. Sometimes we have to do what’s uncomfortable to accommodate our spouses. Both my husband and I have some annoying relatives so at times we drag ourselves there to keep our spouse happy or keep them company so they aren’t there alone. Ideally we’d all have wonderful families and everyone will be always happy and nice. In reality it’s very far from the truth.

I’d ask your husband what he feels is best and go from there .