What is happening here this weekend is so great. I am understanding everybody's clear descriptions of their similar situations, which brings more depth and clarity to my own understanding of me.

LT, thanks for sharing this thread with all of us, and i thank everybody for sharing their stuff. I esp liked the part where Stopdog wrote about telling people they were being annoying. It took ten years for me to really hear that from her. Thats how great this place and these (you!) people are.