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I do not believe that feelings are fact and just because someone hears it as harsh does not make it harsh.
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This is true yeah.
I had someone offline get really angry towards me once, accusing me of attacking them verbally a month after the incident they referred to. I showed the chat log to people I trust who would absolutely call me out if I was wrong. Turns out simply asserting myself in a brief and polite sentence to someone who is really homophobic is like me attacking them.