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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
Wow she sounds a real piece of work talking like this when you are grieving!
I think you’re being very generous to your husband in going to see her but hope you and he have a plan for if she starts with rude comments, he’s a grown man and needs to draw boundaries with her IMO.
Seriously, I’m a mother and if I was being so rude I would hope my son would stop me in my tracks.
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Discombobulated, thank you. I greatly appreciate the validation and your support in my plight with his mom.
My husband has definitely intervened and right after she has made a rude comment. He has had a separate conversation with her about this too.
If it happens again tonight, I may just address it directly myself. OR, use one of the aforementioned suggestions, like saying "what?" in reply. I may even ask her if I've done something to offend her. I don't know. I'll have to see how I feel in the moment.
Thanks again.
