When we read about mental healh, it is very hard to discern whether what we feel matches a disorder and we often think that going to see a dr. will be futile. I'm trying to figure out whether I even have something abnormal. I've never read about anything that matches my situation. (See my longer description under "new members"-- " Is it depression?")

The biggest problem is that I have reoccuring thoughts about things people have done to me, I don't think of them as minor, though it seems that other people must deal with similar issues in a minor way. Almost always, it seems that the people in my life are jealous of something and make comments or do things that hurt. The pain I feel does effect my happiness in general, though I don't have any other "symptoms." I have a lot of trouble shaking off little trespasses. What should I do?