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Old Jul 11, 2022, 07:18 AM
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You have been a caretaker for 20years. It’s going to feel strange to step away from that mindset/role. It was a role you got used to and even though it was not healthy for you, there was a sense of safety to it because it was so familiar.

You wanted something more and went back to school and have been more involved with a life of your own. It’s not wrong to want a life for yourself You don’t have to live out your life as a caretaker.

It’s ok to still care about your husband. However, it’s important you see the ways he may use that selfishly to serve his own needs leaving you with nothing.

Last edited by Open Eyes; Jul 11, 2022 at 07:55 AM.
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