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Originally Posted by unaluna
I did this with my last t. A lot! Thing is, we never said it to each other at the same time. I know for me, i just wasnt feeling it when he said it. And when i said it, he usually said thank you. I think when a client says it, we are feeling safe and loved and appreciative, probably among other things, and those seem to be the words to convey that.
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Interesting unaluna that you and your last T didn't say it at the same time! Former T only said it to me once, at the end of our 10 years together, at our very last session when I was bawling my eyes out and crying hysterically. I told her I loved her and she said I love you too. I had told her prior to that several times that I loved her but she never reciprocated that. I was pretty sure she loved me but it's different when you hear it. But I didn't tell her that I loved her until maybe like year 7. Maybe this is some kind of progress that I am able to tell this to my current T now after only a relatively short amount of time! Hmm.
Thanks, unaluna! HUGS kit