Hi Tigersassy,
I am struggling with something similar to that right now in fact. T and I have discussed which would be the best way to handle something, but she said I am not all in agreement as there are other parts that do not feel the same way. It causes all sorts of confusion and frustrations.

We are also having to work around things so that certain other things do not happen because I have no memory of when I have switched and there is concern that another part of me will do something that is not beneficial to the whole.

Best of luck to you as you figure things out.