I couldn't have said it better myself, Unaware.

Dear Neverever,

I think you might want to reconsider your relationship with this man. If he's into someone else, he's most likely not got the character to stand by you when you need him. He will probably never make you happy, even if you were together in a meaningful way.

Please believe me, 35 is not that old. There are days I would LOVE to be 35 and single, again. I'd do some things very differently, I do know that.

And we should not make the mistake of thinking life is worthless without a man in it. That is the most important thing I can say to you right now.

You are a valuable and precious individual. You have unique and special gifts to give to the world. You have innate worth.

You deserve to be treated better!!!! Please start to see him for what he is.

Once we un-attach ourselves from damaging, destructive people we have let into our lives, we do start to feel better, a little at a time. It does work.

Wishing you clarity, and better days!