Lenny,

I did this post earlier - not sure how I logged on as a guest.

Yes I agree that becoming a parent gives you the responsibility of not only making decisions for yourself BUT for the children.

BUT - It is still up to her to make the decision to leave. Making the decision to not allow him to be in the house with the children is a separate decision.

I am talking about her letting go............nobody can tell her when to do that .............. children or not.