Omg I'm sorry Scarlet.

Velcro, I once had someone say I'm too attached to my providers and avoiding moving due to that. I felt awful, because she meant it disparagingly.

(It also was way more complicated than she knew, not that I owe her an explanation.)

I'm fortunate that I'll still see my T (just switch to virtual) when I move. I don't want a Norwegian therapist (no offence to my fiancé's nationality hehe) even if I could find one.

T and I use a variety of languages / dialects in our therapy, and they don't translate easily. Plus cultural stuff that's important and difficult to explain to even my fiancé.