I could be misunderstanding this, it sounds like your T made a post implying you're in ''bad shape''.. if so, that seems to me to be particularly cruel as you've had a baby. Please ignore this post if I've got it wrong. I saw a T for too long (well a couple of T's actually) who had more than just a tendency to be mean and judgmental. How would that help? Also a different ''professional''' (not in the ''helping'' professions fortunately, made a very cruel statement about my ''weight'' when I had put on weight due to some meds which are notorious for weight gain... some time ago, I can't take those (or other) meds now)