Yes, he calls himself a "dual" resident. Like I said, he is perfectly happy with his new life. I've told him over and over that this is not okay with me. I feel like a single mom while he is living like a single man. This is not marriage to me and is causing me serious daily stress. I cannot talk to him without him interrupting and yelling at me. Texting is the only way I can tell him how I feel. He does not want counseling or divorce. We have been married for 10 years and together fo 17. I do not want to go through the drama of divorce, but also do not feel cared about or respected anymore in my marriage. It feels unfair to both me and our son. I just do not know what to do. I am trying to live my best life, but this issue weighs on my mind daily and keeps me awake at night.