This kind of thing happens to me often...and I figured out it was because I'm usually so taken aback by the comment that I'm almost stupified and can't think. Another reason is that I always feel emotion first and think later...so I have to process things and the older I get the slower I go

((((((((((((((((( Septi )))))))))))))))) Since you all seem to have had a great relationship up until yesterday....maybe there was something that was bothering him and something set him off in a way that he doesn't usually react? Maybe asking him why he went off will help in understanding him a bit more and could give him the opportunity to apologize if he really didn't mean what he said. I know it's hard not to want to lash out in return because we feel mistreated....I try hard first to understand what brought about their reaction .....then if it's still out there and there isn't a good reason for it....then I tell them off...


sabby