Yep,definitely an attempt to make me feel bad.After I moved out ,my parents befriended a woman around my age and has the same name as I. When I visited them my mom and dad started a conversation their back facing me( they did this a lot) as if I was not present there.My dad would say to my mom ...honey do you know our daughter called today and asked how are you daddy? My mom would reply in a singsong way....oooh that's lovely darling,ask her to come over for dinner this weekend. And tell our daughter I have a surprise for her.My dad would say ....ya,honey we love her,mendingmysoul our lovely daughter.They would repeat the name and our daughter so many times that I reacted and asked.Dad...who? My dad stared intensely at me and said My daughter mending......?with a glee ,then told her last name.They are very cruel emotionally.They do it repeatedly with other faux sons and daughters.Just talking incessantly about them in my presence as if they are the real sons and daughters.