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Old Jul 19, 2022, 09:00 AM
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****UPDATE to this situation 7/19/22***

Well, after all that I did and after the apology my daughter gave to the 2 girls.....guess what? Just a few days later, my daughter gets another text message from a Boston cell phone saying "I hear you like pizza", then an hour after that here comes another pizza order to our door from this harasser. We did not have to pay for it obviously and once again the pizza place was understanding. But my gosh!!! It's so stupid and annoying!! I once again called the manager of the 3 closest pizza places to us that these orders have been coming into and said "DO NOT take these orders! We are being targeted by a harasser and police have been notified" I found out from one manager they had a $100 order come in to them with the same names and numbers and immediately cancelled the order. So at least some of them are hearing me and wising up! Then I sit in shock realizing I'm spending my time calling pizza places because of these sick people. All incidents have stopped now. But not sure if it's because it's summer and the 2 girls may be out of town on family vacations or if they simply have grown tired of this.

I'm hoping this will stop for good. My daughter has both the girl's numbers blocked. Police were not really able to do anything unless they could track a credit card or something. Pizza places don't care to prosecute or investigate. We have not been forced to pay for anything aside from the annoyance of it all. It's concerning that my daughter was texted by an out of state number. For a brief moment I wondered if this could be some kind of child sex ring trying to lure my daughter in. But if anything they've pissed my daughter off so I don't think that theory holds much weight.

Only thing I have not done is call the parents of the two girls. I feel they would not be much help. There is no proof that traces this back to their kids and their kids are lying through their teeth to my daughter saying "we have not clue who is doing that. We care about you and would tell you if we knew". I feel they are connected to it because a pizza order arrives after each time my daughter has talked to them. But with no hard proof and 2 kids denying it and acting like they are "friends", who will the parents side with? Certainly not me!! Their own child will reign supreme over me. And I fear all I'll get is "Sorry this is happening to your daughter. My daughter is not aware of anything. Have a nice day."

I'm kind of at a dead end. As I said, I hope it stops for good. The pizza shops are wising up to it and it has to be getting old for the jerk doing this. Feel free to send me any further thoughts on this. In the meantime I'm going to work on my daughter's social awkwardness. I believe that makes her a target for these kinds of people. If you have any suggestions on how to diminish social awkwardness let me know. My daughter can come across as different to some people as she tends to be a quiet person but gets mad easily and over reacts.
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eskielover, MuseumGhost
Thanks for this!
MuseumGhost