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gamommy said:

I was really just looking for support here and not judgement on my decision to stay or leave him. No offense Lenny.


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No offense taken,,my ego is not attached to your pain...

If you saw judgement in any of my words then again I'm sorry. Judgement means ego and ego is fear. I am no longer afraid of addiction but I do give it the respect it has earned through it's destruction. I don't believe I ever suggested you leave him...my advice centered upon safety, boundaries and protection.

This web site is a good place to start concerning statistics and it is worth reading in general...I have also worked within the industry and most of us are humbled greatly by our profession's challenges.

http://www.spiritualriver.com/how-to...relapse-rates/

Lenny