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Old Jul 19, 2022, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Asking if someone is single is fine. Saying “are you still single, I thought you’d be married by now” is a rude comment. No it’s not how she sees it. It’s how it is. Rude. It’s a universally tactless comment.
It might be also that he’s strange that she’s still single because of her virtues.
The fact that we take personal some comments is because of our own insecurity or because we see what we are told as a fault in ourselves.
Adding, in the OP case, the social pressure there’s still, especially, in some places, onto single people.
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