Neither one of us really have the money for a lawyer. We aren't going to fight about anything so we don't really need one. I have filled out the papers and we both agreed to split the filing fee. I was actually planning on filing the papers with the court tomorrow. But last night I felt the need to send him an email. It was something I felt like I had to say to him. And while writing the email I decided that I am NOT filing the papers. I am not giving up on what we had. So if he wants it that bad he will have to file.