How did he purchase the house on his name only while being married? Is it even legal? Don’t people need spouse’s permission to buy property? And why and how he managed to not have your name on it? Where he got the money from? Why isn’t your name on the house you live in and why are you ok with not having your name on anything? Are you paying fir maintenance of either houses? I hope not! Sounds like the guy played you.

Well why would he introduce you to a woman he left you for? That’s not what typically happens. I don’t see how counseling could help here? You hope he’ll leave her?

You need to talk to a lawyer. With having no rights for any of the property you could end up on the streets. I hope you don’t financially support this dude while he enjoys his life with other woman.

See a lawyer. Asap