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Old Jul 21, 2022, 04:27 PM
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BTW I just texted my T a bit ago. Now is the long wait. The other day she asked how I was and I responded w/in 30 minutes or so. This was maybe mid-day. I got a response back from her at 2:45 AM (but I didn't actually get it until I checked my phone maybe around 530 AM or something). She said she was thinking, hoping, praying for the right response and the magic wand to make things better. That's why she didn't respond right away. I can't fault her for not responding right away. I mean, she has no obligation to respond at all. But we have a deal where I tell her if I do a certain thing and so now I wait. And like overanalyze everything.
T replied:

Love you, Kit. This is not a sign that you failed or that you are somehow not strong enough. This is entirely something else and when you can understand that...when I can find a way to make you know that...this will significantly decrease and eventually disappear altogether.

.....I responded with a heart.
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