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Old Jul 21, 2022, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted by velcro003 View Post
Thanks LT. She gave me the "gist" of what she wrote. But she said the exact things I needed to hear. I just wish I could trust her words more. She has told me about a billion times that I am not too much and not a burden, and yet...
I worry about the same thing with L: being too much, being a burden. L is always reassuring me I'm not. She says that people are not burdens. People who think others are burden are actually the ones with poor boundaries. Especially therapists. It's up to the therapist to make sure their "****" is in order.

You're not a burden, Velcro. You're a person with needs.
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