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Old Jul 22, 2022, 12:17 AM
Quietmind 2 Quietmind 2 is offline
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
There's two things that he could do: take testosterone or lose weight. I don't think he wants to do either. I don't think he wants to be a dad. He seemed okay if it happened naturally or if I was the one who had to make changes, take meds, etc. But him changing something...probably not going to happen.
That's so unfair to you, Scarlet. If you then have a child, do you think he'll step up to actually be a decent parent? His attitude does point to the high possibility (in my opinion) that he's not enthusiastic to have a child.

Maybe he thinks his share of parenting is just going to be the "fun Dad" who isn't interested in the daily work that goes on in reality? If so... it's probably best to find out early.

So sorry Scarlet. I don't want for you to later essentially be a almost single parent, where he just "babysits" on occasion.
Thanks for this!
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