I have learned that when it comes to relationships, men cannot be trusted to not cheat and/or abuse.
Mum's first husband, for example - my dad: at the same time as being married to Mum, he kept getting girlfriends and
with them, then after Mum divorced him he started fathering more kids, not financially supporting any of the kids he fathered
Mum's second husband: used to yell and hit, often without a valid reason
My relationships: i've always been cheated on and in one case, he used to hit furniture and stuff, simply to frighten me and the cat i had at the time
am i right in having learned this lesson? men only want to hurt their partners?
this is why after the last ex of mine, i have never allowed another man in and i honestly dont think i ever will just in case i get hurt
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"true courage is about knowing not when to take a life but when to spare one" Gandalf - The Hobbit
"There are some days, dark and bitter Seems we haven't got a prayer But a prayer for something better Is the one thing we all share" Someday - Disney Hunchback of Notre Dame
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The future will not remember, the past does not forget
Please don't put me on ignore list thanks