"I always feel emotion first and think later"

So you don't speak out of emotion? I used to. It that good or not? LOL

The day before, he was looking at my old manual wheelchair and commented that it was a wide one. He had the unmitigated gall to ask me how much I weigh! And would you believe, right after that he told me a joke about a little girl that was asking her mom all kinds of personal questions to which the mother replied, "there are just some things little girls don't ask their mommies." I added "or to ladies." It must have gone over his head. It won't next time! I'm make sure of it!