I grew up in a family where men and women were always equal in regards to women having careers and spouses sharing responsibilities. . Going as far as over 100 years ago. Everyone is doing what needs to be done. I think it also boils down to what women are willing to tolerate. I don’t have much patience for outdated attitudes and would kick a man to a curb if he sat around while I did it all lol

I am actually pleased to say that younger generation is even more standing up for equality in marriage. Neither my daughter’s husband nor both my nephews or their friends sit around while their wives do it all. Not at all.