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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
I think how you say it might make a difference, if you say it calmly and focus on “When we talk about ….I feel” rather than “You make me feel” if that makes sense.
Do you think he has any idea of how you feel already?
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Yes absolutely, I'm sure he knows since I've hinted at the fact that I've moved on by stating it's in the past but he'll continue. I get the sense it's more of an inability to move on from the past and let things go, I can understand since we are all like this to a certain extent but there comes a time where you need to let trivial matters disappear in the past since constantly bringing stuff up even after so many years has passed comes off as an unwillingness to let things go.