Starlingflock, I am an ex-marijuana smoker & one of my best friends used it much more than I. He also no longer uses. Afaik he didn't have any problems stopping. What I'm saying is marijuana is not addictive like cocaine, crack or heroin is. It does not make a human body crave it as if it was water or food. I've known 2 crackheads in my childhood neighborhood who stole to maintain their crack addiction; ripping a gold chain from a friends neck, breaking into garages at night to steal anything of value to buy a crack vial, stealing a friends home phone, etc... I have never seen or heard of that kind of behavior in marijuana users ever. I believe your hubby simply loves to use marijuana. Possibly he is using marijuana as an excuse. Hope your problem is resolved soon.