Well....when I react out of emotion first, most of the time it is an over-reaction and not the right way to deal with something. I've worked hard at biting my tongue and allowing myself to feel the emotion, figure out why I feel it, and then tempering my words back to the individual who ticked me off or hurt me. So yes, sometimes that means a delayed reaction. And that's ok....at least I come off sounding more intelligent than the maroon who insulted me....and I LIKE that! LOL

Sounds like this guy is just an insensitive clod.....seems like there is a lot of that going around lately LOL

Sorry that happened to you Tomi.....