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Old Jul 26, 2022, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by elisewin View Post
I don't know comrade, I don't try to give you advice or anything and I realize things can be complicated, but in your position I would like to hear from her wtf was up. I would already be miserable and think of the worst so knowing more wouldn't hurt more, I'd presume. Maybe she really had a mental breakdown or something like that and the answer she might give would lead you to right tracks why she did what she did. I don't know if it would make you feel any better and whatever the explanation is there is no excuse for her to do what she did the way she did.

I would want to know as well. I think it would help me process it if I understood what was going on that led her to terminate so abruptly. It could be that she won't tell you, or might give some vague reason like "personal issues," but I personally would still take the chance and ask.

Also, if I remember correctly, I thought her email suggested that this might be a temporary break from doing therapy for her. By not responding, she might just think you're done and don't want to see her again. When there may be a chance you could resume with her in the near future, or at the very least, have an actual termination session (as I could understand your not wanting to continue regular therapy with her).
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