Thank you Scarlett, oh yes, we definitely went to the dependence stage, and luckily came through it into the independence stage! With my Little One that is. I too think that it is needed, as is the modelling, which we also did. It sounds like you are doing very similar work, and I know how beneficial it has been to me. I hope it is the same for you.

I just wish I could get to this other part. About the same age as you, I also hit a brick wall and I have no idea how to access it. How to communicate with it.

Thanks Scarlett, I wish you so well on your journey through this with L, and hopefully I'll manage to find a way myself!