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Originally Posted by Rive.
Feels like she sprung this on you? Do you agree to having your parents present?? That is a lot... first T coming to your house (I don't know how you feel about that) then having parents present.
This should have been discussed with you... at length.. re what is going to happen, what she will share, how *you* feel about any of that, any of your questions and/or concerns, what you want to be shared (or not!) in front of parents & IF you agree to this in the first place.
Having other people present is a big move and really needs to be paved beforehand. Not... sprung last minute.
Sorry if this is an unhelpful post. I am just speechless (this is *not* how a T ought to proceed!!)
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I agree with this and either commented on it in this thread or on the Couch. Sounds like it's in place now though.
Kit, if there's anything you don't want your T to discuss with your parents, I wonder if maybe you could email or text her beforehand? I think that's what I'd be most worried about (say, if I brought my H to a session with me). Or maybe ask if she could let you take the lead on what topics to discuss? I do hope it goes well....