I think the issue comes from outdated perspective that women’s goal and purpose in life is to serve a man. That’s why they are willing to put up with men either doing nothing or just “helping” or treating them badly.. If the purpose in life is to serve him, then of course it is only expected she’ll do everything and allows bad treatment. And for some women it might be the case. No thanks

And let’s look at same sex couples. Both men or both women. How does this outdated idea even applies? It does not.