How heart breaking for T. I can't imagine.

You did not know the situation - there is no reason to beat yourself up over it. But it shows therapists have their own personal demons to battle as well. In the time that she has been empathetic and understanding for many, we can only hope that people will do the same to her in her time of need.

Knowing this information, though it may be hard, keep in mind that if she is different/distant/distracted it is not a personal thing against you, it's that her world has just crashed down on her as well.