@rechu, it seems to me that we can’t complain with our espouses. From what you say and from what I live with my partner, they are far too much from ancients clichés.
I wouldn’t have accepted a different thing.

On my behalf, only, only there a little complain, I’m pretty much organised tying the fridge, wardrobes, drawers, etc. I admit that I have diagnosed traits of perfectionism.
His repeated phrase is “ Where I have put my “x”?
Me: Who knows, it may be anywhere. lol!

Also I manage with the routines of my doggies care (meds, cleaning). I’m not saying he doesn’t do anything of that but I take charge on it because they have some pathologies and my babies have to feel and be the best as possible. 😀