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Old Jul 28, 2022, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
I never hear "my parents did this and therefore i believed x, not y, which i now realize is not true" as BLAME. It's just the facts, ma'am. Stating a sequence of events.

Like i ALWAYS lock the car door, and NEVER leave my backpack in it. Yet every week on NextDoor, oh boo hoo my purse was stolen out of my unlocked car, what kind of evil world do we live in?! Well i would definitely blame your parents for not teaching you right! I may need to ask for a trigger warning for car break-in posts cuz man they irkle me!
I disagree -saying my parents did X to me is not a fact in most cases. The parent might have been trying to do MNOP but it was interpreted as X.

I would never blame parents for that. I worry about you.
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Thanks for this!
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