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Old Jul 29, 2022, 07:43 AM
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I am doing a little better. Seeing a T again tomorrow, luckily. It's not at the same practice as the one I discontinued with. I was discharged from their practice for cancelling too many times. I know people have boundaries, but sheesh. I felt disappointed but honestly it was too close for comfort to just switch to another therapist at the same clinic. These feelings are so complicated. I wish that whole experience didn't happen but I know I just have to radically accept what happened and move on because it doesn't serve me to reflect so much on the past unless it's helpful.

For me when I had some amount of transference it was a sign I was ready to start dating….we’re talking at mid thirties here but prior to that I was asexual….Meds and therapy changed that. Anyway if you don’t have a significant other I feel like you’re more likely to get transference but it’s still possible to get while in a relationship just less so.

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